I also have to add: "She's in your heart". My midwife said this to me when she saw how broken I was handing over to a nurse my precious baby Lily's body. I still tear up thinking and writting about it. The memory of Lily is forever in my heart.
When I shared Lily's picture to other babyloss moms I was told: "She's beautiful". Somehow these moms were able to see her the way I do... Fearfully and wonderfully made... Psalms 139:14