I would not qualify what we do as rituals...I would rather like to say we have traditions. Like for all my children, I plan to bake and decorate a special cake on Lily's birthday it is important for me to do so because I worked hard to deliver her that day, she was an important human being, my daughter. This is also why I ware my "Lily pendants" as a way to say she was here, loved by us, loved by her Creator. With this pendant, I also can easily include Lily's memory in our photos. On special occasions I also like to remember Lily like we did in this picture.